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般若之旅-用心聆听

本文讲到【听】的问题
实际上这是一个涉及到心的敏感性,或者说深层意识结构的问题
K:So I go to him now, not knowing. Therefore I am listening. But we know - and that is your difficulty.
K:You may have your prejudices, you may have your conclusions, but when you are listening put them away - the interpreting, comparing, judging, evaluating, put all that away. Then communication takes place
R:That is, putting away everything is the same as having the same intensity and being at the same level.
K:Otherwise what is the point of it?
如果不能放下所有的【转译、比较、偏见】(也就是造成个体化错觉,或者说,使心灵迟钝的因素)去听,那也就没必要【听】了……因为最终你得到的还是【转译、比较、偏见】。
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K:It may be that he is expressing a feeling which is very superficial and if it is superficial, I say let us go a little deeper. So in going deeper and deeper, he is expressing something which is totally common to all of us. He is expressing something which so completely belongs to all human beings.
所有的用心聆听,是指接近本质,而本质既是你的也是我的,所以事情也就由个人到大众,由个体到人类……听出言外之意,超越语言去听的本质,就是去听出这层意味
【听】=一体同悲(compassion),亦或说是同理心:这里的意思要比字眼更深刻,在深层意识结构的层面,对面聆听的对象也由某个对象话的人,变成了某种共有的特质,当聆听者越发深入意识的深层结构,他听到的也有所不同……他变得所见即所得(显然,当所有的【转译、比较、偏见】被这种所谓的compassion挤走时,聆听就发生了,或者换一个角度来讲,正是为了【听】,所以意识的私语平静了下来)。
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接下来,文中提到,【compassion】不是已知的范畴,因为只有当代表已知的【意识】安静下来之后,【听】才发生,所以这种东西你不能假设它是可以被“觉察力”发现的东西(觉察力即意识的一部分发现另一部分所面临的情况时得到的东西)
所谓的【沟通】(或者常常被用来形容克和讨论者们试图的进行的【交互】)是发生在深层的意识结构层面,且克的影响力强大到常常不经意间把周围的人轻易的带入到这种层面,但是他们之中有些人,接近了心里这口井,而有些人则是只能用意识的觉察力捕捉蛛丝马迹……不管怎样,一个人是否发生了变化(或说带有克氏语义的所谓【转变】),它都不可能被已知和可表的体系所度量。
K: It is like having a fountAIn in your yard, flowing, flowing. I would like to watch it, see it out there and inside. So what am I to do?
FW: I will find out what prevents me from having that.
K: That is analysis. I won't analyse, because it is a waste oftime. I have understood that, not because I have said it and you have accepted it, but I see the reason, the logic, the significance and therefore the truth of it. Therefore analysis is out.
这段话所反映的精神可以说贯穿克的谈话始终,他在面对心理现象的层面,从一开始就是指,在意识的深层结构层面,多深呢,深到观者即所观(即无法度量),所见即行动,这里没有分析的空间。如果一人真的【看】、【听】某种现象,是指他接触的是这些东西的本质,就如同【compassion】一样,如果还有分析的空间,还可以通过塑造被分析对象来进行已知的游戏(即一部分意识基于所见到的另一部分意识进行反应),一个人就会去说,“他们(克)能做到而我做不到,我要找出原因”,而不是【我要模仿他,我该怎么做,我是需要这样,还是不要那样】
意思是说,一个人必须处于某种情境下,这种情境的【迫切性】充满他,而使他不可能有空间去分析……分析不会导致进展,仔细看克的所有讨论中,取得进展的地方都不是分析得到的,相反有可能有一些地方是解构分析的,为了不让讨论被分析所阻碍
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K: I want it, how am I to have it? I do not care,I am hungry. You do not analyse hunger
K: May be or may be not. May be the demand is so great I puteverything aside. The demand itself puts everything aside. You understand? The house is burning. There is no argument, there is no weighing which bucket to use, which pump to use.
这里克重提了经典的【火宅喻】,当然同样著名的还有【毒箭喻】……遗憾的是人们听到这些说法只是当做一般的譬喻,并没有理解这些譬喻的语境,它指的就是【人们直面某种现象后得到的迫切反应】。这里指的就是某种抽象的进展,而人们只有靠某种“充满他们到甚至将所有的【转译、比较、偏见】都自然的挤到一边的那种反应”,才能取得进展。
K: He has created that crisis in you,…… The monsoon says to you: `Please collect all the water you can, next year there will be no monsoon.' You understand? That makes you build every kind of hold to collect water
那么最后我们可以看到克的目的,他试图去和讨论者们【沟通】,即希望讨论者们具备【一种抽象的内在的紧迫性】,因为【沟通】只能在对等的层面才能产生。这种【紧迫性】不是某种肤浅、外在的危机感,意思是它不是被人们发现于外而试图于内唤起的某种对等的反应,它不在表层的意识结构里找到。而在那个深层意识结构的层面,没有分析者和被分析者的语境里,人们都是直面现象,而现象产生必然的行动。
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